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The Possession of a Preoccupied Mind

Hey, how you doin'?  No, I am not rewatching Friends for the zillionth time.  It's just that I hate to start traditionally.  I'm in a conflicting situation: some of my readers like my conversational tone, but apparently it isn't quite acceptable to the publication agencies. Two of my best-appreciated stories were rejected because of their tone. The rejection felt like a jolt that I could practically feel in my head, especially the second one.  Since that day, I've been caught up in a vicious loop of boredom because I stopped writing anything new.   I also called off a new transcription gig that promised me some good money, but the client was a tad bit of a scoundrel in his behaviour.  So here I am, having voluntarily stepped away from both writing and work, and somehow managing to be bored out of my mind. Pretty efficient, ain't I? I'm in that peculiar state where I don't want to do anything to kill time, yet somehow want the time to pass joyfully. I ...

The Wisdom In Parental Reprimand

No, I don't mind my parental reprimand. I think I could use some administration in my life. I don't think I have figured it all out. About certain things, I might have, but there is a lot to go and given their age and experience, especially with life and people, I believe there’s wisdom they can pass down to me. Also, I don't think whatever I do is right every time. I question the morals behind everything I do, and if I have done something wrong, then I prefer being hit with the truth rather than hiding behind false justifications. I don't think I deserve immunity from being told the difference between right and wrong. I used to think like that during my soft girl period, but now, at the age where I am right now, I just want to be as morally acceptable a person as I can.   Another reason is my love and respect for my parents. It is above and beyond. I care for their emotions that are attached to me. A child is a child. He or she is the property of their parents. And one...

Would It Work: Turning Passion Into Profession?

They say turning passion into a profession is what makes the recipe for good income. But from personal experience, this is a bad idea. Especially if you have an artistic passion for writing. That's because your passion channels your inner turmoil and, thus, proves to be an escape from everything that is a burden. This, however, is untrue, when you make it your profession where it becomes the means to an end. It forces you to use your resources but between me and you, writing only gets to the surface when you are motivated and it is impossible to feel motivated 24/7 a day, 6 days a week.  Forcing your artistic prowess is impossible, it never happens. Whoever tells you otherwise, is just lying.  My Brief Journey Into Professional Writing If I have to explain why, let me share my experience of turning passion into a profession. As soon as I finished my Masters in English I rushed myself into things. Thinking of turning my passion for writing thoughtful expressions to meet an appr...

Weakness: My Acknowledged Pathos

Sometimes, we all find ourselves saying, "I feel very weak".  But how weak do you exactly feel?  What would you understand if I say I feel weak in the sense that I feel as if there is no strength left in my body to even feel the body? Would you understand that the weakness I feel makes me not able to raise my hands?  Would you understand if I say it does not make me able to stand on my feet?  Would you understand if I tell you that occasionally, it does not make me able to sit?  Would you really understand it if I tell you that, at times, it does not even make me able to talk?  I hardly think anyone would believe what my weakness entails much less understand it.  Still, whether you understand it or not I never stopped feeling it. I have been feeling it for two decades.  But the peculiar thing is that despite how long I have been feeling this, I never seem to have properly conveyed this to anyone. But strangely, my father understood it. I have neve...

In & Out of the Eye Clinic : An Unexpected Trajectory of Life

Yesterday my mother had her cataract surgery. It was a huge thing for use since it was one of the first serious medical emergencies after the passing of our father. Nevertheless, my brother took command over the whole situation, beginning to end as we escorted him to the hospital for the day. Now here I refer "we" to myself and my younger cousin brother, who is also my contemporary age-wise.  Now the whole surgery thing was sudden and out of bloom. None of us were sure for any of the surgery to take place until the late afternoon of the day before the surgery. That was the time when we received the report of the blood sugar level test of our mother, now considerably reduced to pass for the performing of surgery.  In the face of this medical challenge, my brother assumed the leadership by taking command of the situation from the moment the report of the blood sugar level came out in favor of the surgery to the moment we escorted our mother to the hospital the next day and the ...

Understanding Intermittent Fasting

  In the world of health and wellness, intermittent fasting has emerged as a popular and effective strategy for improving various aspects of our well-being. Some do it as a quick and effective way to lose weight but its benefits are not exclusive to losing only weight. But it has an all-round impact on our body and brain as well.  So, what exactly is intermittent fasting, and how can it benefit you?  Without further ado let's dive into the details. What is Intermittent Fasting? Intermittent fasting (IF) is not a diet but rather an eating style with cycles of fasting and eating periods. In other words, it is an eating style in which the 24 hours of the day are divided into two cycles, one in which a person gets to eat and the other in which he fasts.  Unlike traditional diets that focus on what to eat, intermittent fasting dictates when to eat. It doesn't restrict specific food groups but instead emphasizes the timing of your meals. Different Types of Intermittent Fas...